Thursday, January 5, 2012
Trying to be better organized this year!
Friday, July 30, 2010
Biblical Feminism
"But as for you, speak the things which are fitting for sound doctrine.
Older men are to be temperate, dignified, sensible, sound in faith, in love, in
perseverance. Older women likewise are to be reverent in their behavior, not
malicious gossips not enslaved to much wine, teaching what is good, so that they
may encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to
be sensible, pure, workers at home, kind, being subject to their own husbands,
so that the Word of God will not be dishonored." Titus 2:1-5
My husband and I came to the same conclusion on this passage. Women are commanded to be "workers at home" or "keepers at home" as the KJV puts it. Women are clearly commanded to manage the domestic affairs of the household.
Some criticism for the belief system or "denomination" that I ran into is that they take this command to the extreme. They believe women are not, under any circumstances, to work outside the home. There is no need for college education for women, and women should not be in the workforce. Period. To do so would be blasphemy!
I did some research online, and did not find a clear statement from churches within this denomination that would either prove or deny such criticism, but I can tell you if that is in fact what these churches preach, I disagree! I do not believe it is a sin for a woman to have an education. I do not believe it is a sin for a woman to work outside the home. (Many women may need to work in order to provide for their families.) I do believe, however, that when a women neglects the needs of her house, husband and children in order to have a career or pursue an education, then she is dishonoring God.
God calls women to be "workers at home" and in today's society, homemaking is not popular, glamorous or highly esteemed. That is true. However, in reading this passage, a bigger issue jumped out at me. Discipleship! Older women need to be teaching, encouraging and setting an example for younger women to follow. I do believe that most Christians have missed the boat on this. No matter where we are in life, we all have the ability (and mandate) to make an impact on those around us. {This command is for the men too!} You don't have to be perfect. You don't have to have all the answers. You just have to have a love for people and a desire to see them grow to be more like Christ. You just need to let people in and be willing to be used by God.
Who knows... maybe if we (as "older women") really took the mandate to train the younger women to love their husbands and children seriously, future generations just might see a shift in society back to the Biblical model of the women's role to be a worker at home.
Friday, July 16, 2010
The Thrill of the Hunt!
Monday, July 12, 2010
Are the "terribles" coming?
Friday, July 9, 2010
Summer Vacation
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
Sweet tooth
I usually go for all things chocolate, but this cake was delicious!!! (I plan on making it again on Thursday for a special birthday treat!)
Here is the recipe if anyone is interested:
1 package plain white cake mix
1 cup milk
8 Tbsp (1 stick) butter, melted
3 large eggs
1 tsp. vanilla extract
2 tsp. ground cinnamon
Mix all ingredients with an electric mixer until well blended. Divide batter equally into two (greased and floured) 9" round cake pans. Bake at 350 for 27 to 29 minutes.
Frosting:
8 Tbsp. (1 stick) butter, room temperature
3 3/4 cup confectioners' sugar, sifted
3 Tbsp. milk
1 tsp. vanilla extract
Blend butter with electric mixer until fluffy. Stop the machine and add the sugar, milk, vanilla and cinnamon. Beat until light and fluffy (adding more milk if the frosting seems too stiff).
I lightly sprinkled some cinnamon sugar on the top of my cake for a "finishing touch".
Enjoy! :)
Monday, June 14, 2010
Thankful for asthma
Benjamin woke up around 11:30 Sunday night coughing and wheezing. We gave him a breathing treatment, as we usually do when this happens, but it didn't really seem to help. My poor baby was very obviously struggling to breathe (very scary for a mom), so I decided to take him to the ER right away. (While we were gone, Ray was awake worrying and praying) They were able to get the wheezing under control with a steroid and we came home around 3:00 Monday morning. Ray and I were both very exhausted when we were finally able to crawl into bed! Our other children, however, slept very well the entire night (unaware of the situiation) and were wide awake at 7:30. UGH!!
Rather than sit around the house all morning... thinking about how tired we were, we decided to take the kids to the park. Hopefully they could burn some energy and take a nice, loooooong nap. :) I decided to put Anna's hair in a ponytail before we left the house. (This is where the praise comes in!) You see, Anna normally wears her hair down and puts a in a headband (she is trying to grow her bangs out). But because she was going to be running around outside, I decided to pull her hair back... that's when I saw it. I thought she had a scab on the back of her head and was wondering how she got it, but then I saw moving legs! A tick! Based on the last time she was outside, it had to have been there for at least 36 hours. (who knows when we would have noticed it!) We were able to get it out in one piece (along with some flesh) and Anna was a real trooper!
This afternoon she developed a low fever, so I called the pediatritian. They said her fever was borderline and they want us to keep a close eye on her. All day she has been acting pretty lethargic, has been complaining of nausea and her fever has gone up. (sigh) Right now she is sleeping soundly, but I cannot keep from worring. If she wakes with a fever in the morning, we are off to see the doctor. I am praying for you now, sweet Anna!
(I think I worry too much about my kids sometimes!)